So, my coworkers always randomly find some controversial topics to discuss at the lunch table and the discussion always leads to the one or all of the following:
a) a screaming match
b) saying something inappropriate
c) too much sharing
Today was: Would you want to know if your spouse/bf/gf cheated on you?
D's position was: Yes, honesty is always the best policy
E's position was: hell no, you lie. take that to the grave!
A's position was: Not if it was harmless 1-timer. Yes, otherwise.
J's position was: Yes, then cheat on him back! An eye for an eye.
Personally, i think you should date someone who's awful at lying - then you don't even have to worry about it. If you can't find this magical person, then I guess you take your chances. Though, I think some things should be agreed upon. Does your partner think strippers are dirty and probably carry STDs? Does your partner think communication is important and doesn't mind confronting problems when they arise? If yes, those are good signs. ;-)
However, I would say most women agree - if it was meaningless and didn't get past a certain point - keep it to yourself. If you feel guilty - GOOD. You SHOULD feel guilty. You should try to make it up to that woman every day of your goddamn life.
If it means more...you gotta fess up and do it QUICK. Anything less and you're just a coward.
